2022.01.26 21:18 nesquikcornflakes modeled and painted My Melody some time ago :)
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2022.01.26 21:18 Geemantle Fan Card - Antechamber
2022.01.26 21:18 noexqses My family's negativity is draining me.
My (20F) mother (50f) and sister (27f) have this weird tendency to make sabotage-y statements? Sorry for reposting everywhere, but it keeps getting removed.
This is such a weird dynamic that I can't describe it well. I have also been in therapy for 8+ years so have talked to my therapist about this and she kind of just... doesn't understand I think due to a cultural gap? I love my family to death. We've been through shit including a narcissist stepfather for over a decade. I've fully come to terms with the fact that I will probably be in therapy for the rest of my life due to intense anxiety and depression.
One of the big things I've been working on is positive thinking and not spiraling into negative thought patterns. However, my family makes this so difficult that sometimes I have to go days or weeks without engaging in real conversations with them because I don't feel like dealing with their negativity. We all have anxiety I believe but theirs just goes unchecked and they have to drop off little morsels of misery in nearly every conversation. I live about two hours away and am currently in my senior year of college, so I've been working hard on boundaries and my self peace. I think they're having a hard time adjusting to the fact that I'm not the little girl who's subservient and absorbs the punches anymore.
For example, today I was just shooting the shit on the phone with my mom and I mentioned that my dog's shedding is annoying (I'm allergic but I love her). Just casually mentioned it. I said my next dog would be a mini poodle because they're small and shed less, and my Mom immediately goes, "No, you're gonna get a border collie that sheds a lot." Why? I told her to stop and that it was annoying how she was just being a contrarian to everything I was saying. Of course, she replies, "Okay, sorry for telling a joke." After that, I was just irritated and didn't want to talk anymore because she couldn't just admit she was being a dick and drop it. And yeah, that may seem a bit harsh but we've had a conversation about this before. And the fact she couldn't just own up to it and I am literally 30 years younger than her and know how to apologize is just annoying.
Same with my sister, but I kind of let it slide more with her because she's pregnant and generally unhappy with her life as well. I recently went through a breakup and have been in a new relationship for 2 months. We've been using the L word for about a month now. And yes, that's moving a bit fast and we're young but what's the harm? I truly care about him but I feel like my sister has the false notion that he's a rebound and he's not. I can't casually bring up anything with her because she's so quick to shoot it down or point out potential concerns. When I told her we were using the L word, she was quick to criticize me for it under the guise of "sisterly care". Same with where I'm going or how I spend my money. When I tell her to relax and mind her own business, she's quick to escalate and it turns into a fight and it just makes me dread talking to her and my mother.
I've tried telling them to chill but it just turns into a fucking fight every time. Have any of you experienced this?
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2022.01.26 21:18 nekuyrohs Hmmm
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2022.01.26 21:18 Psychological-Rub919 Taylor Swift
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2022.01.26 21:18 2nd_Fermenter COVID tests being billed as office visits (in Chicago)
We've noticed that a few (but only a few) of our COVID tests that we've gotten through the RI portal have billed to a plastic surgeon in Chicago. Maybe that's not a big issue since Blue Cross seems to pay the diagnostic fees anyway, but it is odd. However, they also come with copays for office visits, and I'm not excited about having to pay a copay out of pocket for an office visit to a plastic surgeon in Chicago over a COVID test I had done in RI.
Anyone else have this issue? And/or, have thoughts on recourse?
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2022.01.26 21:18 AutoNewspaperAdmin [Business] - New Zealand markets take high CPI in their stride, focus on US Fed | NZ Herald
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2022.01.26 21:18 Dayglo-lioness Help - what type of pest is this?
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2022.01.26 21:18 Reasonable_Phys Why do people place large emphasis on height if in the same weight class?
Particularly with guys like Adesanya, Mcgregor etc. People say they have huge advantages fighting shorter people but surely if they're the same weight, the shorter guy has more muscle and power and is better on the ground?
Obviously this isn't for heavyweight as 5 foot 9 cormier couldn't reach 265lbs unlike taller guys without losing speed. But comparing mcgregor and a guy a few inches shorter at 145 it doesn't seem like a big advantage when you're so starved and normal strong guys that height weigh much more.
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2022.01.26 21:18 Lemonjello23 Saw a dog almost get taken away by a Hawk at Joan Milke Flores park
2022.01.26 21:18 firetothegreenrain Wild Rift Ranked is BUSTED
The devs are lost. Ranked is completely and utterly broken. The devs have decided to use their numbers instead of their heads when it comes to point distribution in Diamond.
Seriously. No matter what you do, you’re at +10/-15, even if your games are trending upwards and you’re doing better. Win 10 in a row? Still the same. Lose 10 in a row, still the same.
The “math says” the current system works, but the devs need to stop running their stupid math equations and join the real world. Go play ranked and talk to any player in the diamond rank.
They all hate the game. Seriously, maybe you guys are running the math backwards? Maybe your retention is really from frustration and people being more competitive since they’re losing. I can guarantee you no diamond player is enjoying the game right now. Who enjoys having a rainy day every day? Even if you win you get 10 points. You lose? Even worse, -15.
The frustration ends at some point tho. People will quit. NO ONE is online right now. ALL my friends message me the same thing, “ranked is BROKEN.”
Fix the point distribution, your math is wrong. You’re tracking the wrong thing. 100% your metrics are wrong.
Current system: better retention (ya cuz we just spend 10 hours getting 90 points and lost it in 3 games. Sunk cost fallacy for your players.)
Actual system: feels horrible no one is having fun. I mean NOBODY.
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2022.01.26 21:18 MicrowavedTheBaby I might end up in a mental hospital and I just don’t know what to do..
The school saw how much I had been cutting a couple days ago and after hours of talks they decided I’m high risk. Idk what it all means but the following night they called my parents and said I need to be in a mental hospital but my parents refused. They said they won’t require it yet but basically if I mess up I’m gone. My girlfriend is super stressed Cuase she doesn’t want to lose me. She is super depressed too, her family is abusive and she’s been through a lot.. she can’t get therapy and she never is allowed to leave her room. She even does school online because her moms makes her. She can’t get help and she’s struggling so much.. I can’t help her and if she loses me it will crush her. All of her boyfriends have left her and all of her friends have to. She has no oke anymore other than me.. and I can’t handle being in a relationship, I’m too selfish and can’t support her the way she needs it. Iben close to leaving but I can’t beauxse it would destroy her. I’m not sure what to do anymore because I can’t leave but I also can’t handle staying. She needs somone stable and I need to be alone
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2022.01.26 21:18 AutoNewspaperAdmin [NZ] - School uniforms 'increasingly unaffordable for most families' - charity | NZ Herald
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2022.01.26 21:18 OzBargainBot Arkham Horror LCG $44.79 + Delivery/Free Delivery with Amazon Prime from Amazon US
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2022.01.26 21:18 jackangry2 Great news
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2022.01.26 21:18 No-Building6284 am i shedding already?
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2022.01.26 21:18 imjustapublixsink Uhhh what is happening here 0-0
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2022.01.26 21:18 Kayla-Charizard Gabby meet your new friend...Gabby🌈
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2022.01.26 21:18 The_This_ DO NOT TRY TAKING OUT THE GEARBOX IN YOUR RIFLE
2022.01.26 21:18 realMrMaintain AL41 COIN ?
2022.01.26 21:18 brokenheartedpeanut Sitting here in my empty dark room at night, lonely and depressed, remembering the many times my ex modeled SIMS characters after us and then made them have a large family with 3 children and a dog, with us choosing their names.
2022.01.26 21:18 Frapachino_Ace Season 4 Ranked Loading Frames
How do you guys feel about the season 4 ranked frames? I personally think that they didn't stick to one design and made platinum way too good for diamond and IMO even masters to be after it. Like I'm actually jealous of platinum players last season but let me know your opinions.
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2022.01.26 21:18 fredenocs RDS license server sharing licenses
Hey all. First of all thanks for the assistance.
I’m not clear and not inputting correct search terms to find the answer. I have a RDS license server with 10 user licenses. I now have an SAP upgrade taking place and can’t upgrade the prod rdp server to the latest version. So I stood up another server to serve as saptest rdp server. I’ll need to utilize the 10 licenses to allow multiple users logged on. How do I instruct the license server to license with saptest rdp server? Thank you
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2022.01.26 21:18 Possur70us_648 The wait is painful
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2022.01.26 21:18 menace416 GOING LIVE SOON 🔥🔥🥵
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